How can I forgive God for not making me Chad and instead subjecting me to a lifetime of lovelessness and autism?

How can I forgive God for not making me Chad and instead subjecting me to a lifetime of lovelessness and autism? I don’t see how peace with God is possible under such circumstances.

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  1. 7 months ago
    Anonymous

    God isn't real. Blame your parents for having garbage genes.

    • 7 months ago
      Anonymous

      OK then, how do I forgive my parents. I don’t care how, I just want peace.

      • 7 months ago
        Anonymous

        Ironically, what might help is writing your grievances on a paper, and burning it.

        Also, your parents aren't to blame, if the reason is genetic.
        You want love too, and will probably find it with a similar-ish girl to you.

        • 7 months ago
          Anonymous

          > what might help is writing your grievances on a paper, and burning it
          Useless advice.

      • 7 months ago
        Anonymous

        I genuinely hate your whiny mentality so much it's unreal, can't even out it into words how much I hate you.
        >I'm not perfect so life sucks and I won't try and I hate God/my parents!!
        Listen dumbass, NO ONE is perfect, and life exists on a spectrum. Maybe "Chad" had a better time than you did. Certainly possible. But he has his own struggles, and there are also millions of people who had it even better than he did. And there are also millions - probably BILLIONS - who have it worse than you. Were you born with functioning limbs in a first world country, no genetic diseases, never had to face hunger or war, etc.? You're already better off than most of the world. So you really need to shut the frick up. If you were born a blind orphan with a missing leg then you would have the right to whine and I would humor you, but simply being an average-looking man is absolutely not something you have the right to piss and moan about. Get off the fricking incel forums you utter homosexual. I wish I could beat the shit out of you.

        • 7 months ago
          Anonymous

          Look, you're not saying anything anyone doesn't know, but when you're younger it's hard to come to terms with the fact that some people will literally have to put no effort into the things you did, and if they put less, they'd get more out of it than you. It helps no one to highlight the predicament of other people, we will never be them, our problems belong to us, and you literally cannot get someone to understand the difference in scenarios, even if you could they'd never find themselves in it. You're getting this complaint from someone who's stuck in his situation, sure he could just give up on life and become homeless therefore putting himself in the position of those people worse than him, but he's looking for help on a problem in his own lane. You literally have no idea what the frick he could be going through, even in America he could be working a full time job taking care of his disabled mother and you could say this exact same shit to him and have it apply the same. It has literally never been helpful or interesting to add this to a conversation in any possible human culture. It's just whining that others dare have a problem with their lives that isn't bad enough that you feel it warrants your sympathy. Just don't post, or frick off if you feel that way friend, no one on this earth would be deprived never having read your words.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            I actually kind of found his post refreshing. If I am grateful for my many blessings, then I don’t have to let the fact that I’m average or below average with women destroy my whole life. Maybe I can also then love myself more because I am a less bitter and resentful person.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            Based. Remember also that you can improve your looks, and looks can be overcome as well. Stop letting other moronic wienersuckers on the internet drag you down, and for God's sake don't let them influence your mind. Part of the reason I get so pissed at these people is because I briefly let them influence me when I was a teenager and I regret the wasted time and suffering they caused me when there was nothing really wrong with me and my life would have been - and eventually became - great when I stopped listening to their poison.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah, but if you were an ugly sped working a minimum wage job how would that have helped you at all? I'm replying to him like that specifically because I see that shit all the time in these threads and it astounds me, some actual homosexual having this much of a vendetta about some argument he lost in an incel forum he spergs out about every complaint. If it was about being on topic, I would agree, but no, anon is just mad someone dares be sad about a problem that makes him feel inadequate for his lack of empathy. Another guy did the exact same thing and offered real tangible advice without the clear projection and seething.

            You can even see his other post pretending like it's an unreasonable thing to feel bad about the very clear differences in status birth can grant you, not understanding that no one in this thread has said that it's over, merely that you have to work around what you have and build a life for yourself. He's just a low iq dickhead.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            He literally started his thread by whining about "not being Chad", aka complaining about not being a good-looking man. This is what these incels do, they go onto forums and tell each other "it's over for you, give up" because they aren't a 10/10 in looks. It is the fricking gayest shit in the world and every single incel homosexual deserves to be repeatedly beaten within an inch of his life for acting like this, until he finally cuts it out. I'm serious, severe beatings are the only solution for this unprecedented level of homosexualry. Clearly being coddled by their mothers never helped them.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            No amount of mindset change will reverse the fact that I am below average with women, which is shitty because it means you have to make the choice between settling and being alone forever.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            If you change your mindset, it will literally change your entire life, including your success with women. It's happened for me, it's happened for millions of other men, it can happen for you too. If my brain switched with yours and I inhabited your body, I guarantee I would be a lot more successful simply because I would be a healthier mind in your body. I would very quickly whip your ass into shape if I was given direct control. You probably waste like 90% of your time.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            Easier said than done. I acknowledge that my mindset is probably a b***h/garbage mindset but just saying it and being aware of it doesn’t automatically fix it, and there is no clear solution or way to fix it when you are stuck in it, and coping with being an “actual loser”.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            I understand, just bear in mind what I've said. Imagine if some super successful and driven guy's brain was put into your body. How radically different would things be? Remember this when you feel that it's your looks or some other extrinsic factor holding you back. For example, literally nothing is stopping an alcoholic junk food and porn addict from changing his diet and behavior TODAY except for his addictions - if my mind were put into his body, he would very swiftly return to a healthy state because I would immediately stop all of his bad behaviors.

            Also, viewing yourself as a loser is literally the worst thing you could ever do. You've solidified this as part of your identity, which is stupid as frick because that will massively hold you back so long as you believe it. You probably have a ton of errant beliefs going back to childhood that are just flat out wrong. Now that you're an adult, you can see that other adults are often short-sighted, ignorant, biased and just outright dumb, correct? So what you were influenced by as a kid wasn't necessarily correct or true. You should meditate on this, it's very important to realize if you want to fundamentally change your mindset. If you want to learn how to be a success, look at how successful people operate. There is no other way to do it.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            > viewing yourself as a loser is literally the worst thing you could ever do
            How am I not a loser if Chad was always fricking my crush? Or if I’m so out of it that I don’t even SEE hot girls anymore? Answer me that.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            No it hasn't. This is bad advice, changing your mindset alone won't do shit, it has literally never done shit for anyone. If you inherited his brain you'd have a nice day because based on the way you speak you've never had to deal with any opposition or suffering that wasn't your own fault. You're probably a fat frick in his basement too, which is the funniest part.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            have a nice day unironically shitbrain

            > viewing yourself as a loser is literally the worst thing you could ever do
            How am I not a loser if Chad was always fricking my crush? Or if I’m so out of it that I don’t even SEE hot girls anymore? Answer me that.

            Whether you are or aren't a loser is:
            1. Subjective
            2. Irrelevant
            What's important is that you don't see yourself as a loser. For example, in my eyes, the other shithead homosexual that replied to me is an irredeemable loser. You however don't seem to be. You're seeking answers and looking to improve, which means you still have potential.

            Remember what I said about other people's wrong ideas being planted in your head during your formative years? Ask yourself this question: why do you believe you are a loser? Is that something someone else made you feel? Were you bullied? Were you taught wrong ideas? Go and meditate on this, you will eventually figure out the reason why you think this way, and it's probably something silly. I cannot stress how important deep meditation is for someone dealing with trauma like you clearly are. I must warn you, it will be very painful, but it's worth it. Just like exercising your body can be painful while doing it, but there are benefits on the other side, as opposed to the constant pain of languishing. It's well worth the effort to push through it.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            >No argument
            I wonder why.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Y-YOU CAN'T CHANGE YOURSELF BRO BE MISERABLE FOREVER
            Yes. No reason to argue with a fricking homosexual piece of shit like you. Just stab you through the neck with a sharp implement, you aren't worth more than that. All you do is cause suffering to others with your yiddish poison.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            Not what I said, you have no argument to what I actually said and I don't wonder why. Argue with yourself all you like, you still have no argument for me.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            >trauma
            If you describe it as trauma, then it can’t be entirely a mindset issue. Unless you’re saying I traumatized myself by internalizing a traumatic mindset from a young age. And btw yes I did internalize comments from bullies / girls growing up, certain moments seared in my brain. But they ended up right, they simply clocked me as inept from a young age and to my horror it proved true.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            >If you describe it as trauma, then it can’t be entirely a mindset issue.
            What? Trauma is entirely a mindset issue.
            >Unless you’re saying I traumatized myself by internalizing a traumatic mindset from a young age.
            Yes, that's exactly what I'm saying.
            >And btw yes I did internalize comments from bullies / girls growing up, certain moments seared in my brain.
            Like I suspected.
            >But they ended up right, they simply clocked me as inept from a young age and to my horror it proved true.
            Or is it that you were bullied, called names, thought "they must be right" and carried that incorrect view of yourself throughout your life?

            Think of it this way - your self-image as an adult man is based upon what some little kids called you several decades ago. Sounds kind of moronic when I put it this way, doesn't it?

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            > your self-image as an adult man is based upon what some little kids called you several decades ago
            That was during my teens, now it’s based on my 20’s going by lovelessly. You can’t just turn on a dime and magic your way into not feeling invisible to the opposite sex once the trend has been established and starts to be backed up by hard facts. It takes luck after that point essentially. And when Lady Luck continually fails to deliver, the pit deepens. That’s how it goes. Negative feedback loop. By all means, if you have a method to reverse the trend and for me to feel like the tides are turning, I would welcome it…I’m just skeptical?

        • 7 months ago
          Anonymous

          Whataboutism cope

        • 7 months ago
          Anonymous

          While this is logically sound, I doubt you use this argument against other cronic complainers

      • 7 months ago
        Anonymous

        >OK then, how do I forgive my parents.
        just learn this ancient muslim wisdom, you should feel better

        just wait 50 years, and eveyone will have right to sue your own parents that you are born with like autism or are "cancer positive", or even poor... and then send them to gulag, where they belong

        most moronic human population should learn that "having children" is a privilige for top 1% that could provide life in luxury& top genetic modification for their progeny
        poor massess should and will be sterilised

      • 7 months ago
        Anonymous

        >i just want peace
        the most comforting mindset is to view life as a video game and accept you're playing on veteran/nightmare/lunatic difficulty while chads and women are on beginner and tutorial mode.

        • 7 months ago
          Anonymous

          I don’t find that comforting at all. Who wants to be on nightmare mode. It’s not like you get any glory or a higher score.

  2. 7 months ago
    Anonymous

    Better yourself you homosexual. You want a better life? Buckle down and work hard. Want money. Get a job. Want to look good? Stop playing video games and work out. Pull yourself up by your bootstraps kid. Stop acting like a fricking baby.

    • 7 months ago
      Anonymous

      I like how I look and I have money. Nothing I do to get girls works, I’m like Elliot Rodger.

      • 7 months ago
        Anonymous

        Look into autism research, try getting into trials for experimental cures.

        • 7 months ago
          Anonymous

          Sounds like a long shot

    • 7 months ago
      Anonymous

      Unironically good advice if you ignore the tone. But give up on this if you're thinking about getting true love like this, or if you're the type of person delusional enough to believe love exists OP. This is good advice for getting your life together and getting into a position of comfort so you can learn to handle yourself, but if you think you're getting love on planet earth in your lifetime you're going to have to start a heroin habit to get close.

    • 7 months ago
      Anonymous

      If this would work everyone would do it. But it doesnt

      • 7 months ago
        Anonymous

        You obviously just didn't work hard enough then. Maybe skip the cheat day 😉

    • 7 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Pull yourself up by your bootstraps kid.
      I love that everyone who uses this term seriously doesn't realise that it's literally impossible for someone to pull themselves up by their bootstraps.

      • 7 months ago
        Anonymous

        You do realize it is a fricking expression right? Do you also believe people are talking about temperature when they say "In the heat of the moment" or someone litteraly "steals someone thunder" too? Absolute autistic moron.

        • 7 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah and the joke is that the expression is impossible.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            Work harder then.

            No it doesn't, you're an illiterate moron.

            Funny coming from the person who takes metaphors and expressions literally.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            You are a semantic moron. If you agree that the saying makes no sense, you agree with his post. At this point you're just blatantly shitposting because you don't like your homosexual little buzz phrase being mocked for the empty moronation it is. I hope you have a nice day for being like this.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            >expressions NEED to be taken litteraly
            Again. Autistic moron can't comprehend English. Sad.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            (You)

      • 7 months ago
        Anonymous

        By your logic nobody should die in wars since the "bullets don't have their names on it" too hmm?

        • 7 months ago
          Anonymous

          No it doesn't, you're an illiterate moron.

  3. 7 months ago
    Anonymous

    Peace with God is impossible because he violently gatekeeps even the idea of anything he considers desirable and rapes my mind every second of every day and abuses, terrorizes, threatens, harasses etc me if I even think about things he considers desirable and of course also for doing anything he considers desirable in real life or video games

  4. 7 months ago
    Anonymous

    People telling you it's absolutely genetic are retarted and haven't seen ugly fricks getting chicks on charisma alone. You need to find how to shake off the victim mentality and find a way to charisma. Ofc a lot of girls only care about looks or money, but it's not absolute. I have seen a lot of ugly as frick and poor guys pick up nice girls based on a cool-headed charismatic approach.

    • 7 months ago
      Anonymous

      Your personality is genetic too

      • 7 months ago
        Anonymous

        There's some baseline elements to it, but it's never absolute.

    • 7 months ago
      Anonymous

      > You need to find how to shake off the victim mentality
      How? Girls have never been into me. It’s so painful.

      • 7 months ago
        Anonymous

        Who cares? You need to understand the standards of human attraction and realize that if it's a physical problem it has nothing to do with you as a person and you just gotta come to terms with that, if it's a status problem it similarly has nothing to do with you unless it's affecting your living and goals. The only time it's a real problem is if it's a problem of your personality turning people off, and in that case who the frick cares? Are you really willing to compromise on the most valuable thing in your life for company? If it's something like you being an butthole, abrasive, too talkative, or socially inept, obviously try to ask for honesty in your exchanges with people and adjust accordingly. Otherwise if it's very deeply held beliefs then you're only going to make yourself unhappy and therefore ruin relationships for yourself.

        Think about it like this, would you be happy with your life if some 6'6 SJW hambeast was crying about not being attractive to you, and then eventually did things like get rich enough or mutilate their personality enough to fit you until you were in a desperate position of loneliness enough to marry them? Because if you do have the classical incel problems for real, that's the equivalent scenario, and it's just not helping anyone.

        • 7 months ago
          Anonymous

          > Who cares?
          I want companionship and sexual satisfaction

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            Then do what that one guy said, grind, get money, save up and frick hookers every once in a while or throw yourself into the Tinder game every once in a while for the hope of a desperate frick. If you're genuinely searching for the companionship of someone who really cares about you it cannot be done if you're completely incompatible in terms of what she's seeking, and if you accept that you have to accept that you're going to spend the rest of your life searching the sea of people for the one genuine person. If you're already doing that and can't handle the fact that you may never find them, or that you can't stand the wait, then it's a problem of you being unable to live with yourself and seeking an escape in the surface attraction of someone else.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            > it's a problem of you being unable to live with yourself and seeking an escape in the surface attraction of someone else
            I only became unable to live with myself once my self-image as a dating reject started to solidify around age 18-20. If things had happened for me, I would have no reason to hate myself.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah, I understand that, which is why I said that's irrelevant. You're subconsciously assuming there's something wrong with the person you are because of the many experiences where you've been rejected. That's why I said you have to understand what makes people attracted and see where you're not fitting, the rejection has nothing to do with you rather than things you can't change, or perhaps things you just won't ever want to change. There is literally nothing wrong with you as a person unless you commit heinous crimes, want to commit heinous crimes, and ignorantly assume things of people before you meet them, and overtly treat them badly because of that. Unless you genuinely have a serious flaw in the way you communicate with people, or in your desires there's nothing to hate about yourself because another person didn't latch onto you for superficial characteristics. Similarly you don't need to go chasing companionship just to prove to yourself that you aren't worth hating. Letting yourself be convinced that you are is one of the first stages of being demoralized by the many running propaganda streams in our society that relate to how businesses make their money, and how we as a whole have been conditioned to be unsatisfied in various ways largely because of our own fault.

            It is what it is bro, but if you can't even stand your own company you need to seriously find yourself before you ruin your ability to pair bond by finding someone who will "settle" for you(because if you're in this mindset while in a relationship you'll think that) and being very unhappy.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            Basically I need to find a way to live with myself and love myself even if I’m unpopular, and there is no reason to make my life life miserable for my own unpopularity, I should just find a way to be happy in myself and not care.

          • 7 months ago
            Anonymous

            Well yes if you want to be cheesy, but if you want to be real and not find yourself depressed in the future you have to come to terms with the fact that popularity in itself is an ephemeral thing. All those states and subcultures shift fast, and are irrelevant to someone who isn't in them, regardless of that, we're all going to age and die looking ugly but being slightly richer or poorer, those popular groups and people will be infinitely far away from all that attention on their deathbeds whether their family is right next to them or not, however anyone copes, you're going to die by yourself with no one ever being privy to the full experience of what you are. There was never anything to care about in that situation, and it was always about what you get out of life. Being miserable about your situation isn' wrong, and if everything you say is true you're not doing anything to make yourself miserable so you shouldn't blame yourself for it. You are right though, your life should be the journey of you crafting the experiences you value the most, and if that includes searching for companionship you also shouldn't abandon it just because your mindset now isn't good for it. I only say that last part because you seem down, and usually when you're like that you don't have a proper estimation of yourself. You may not actually be as hopeless as you think, which is the main reason you're right about working on yourself. At the end of the day you don't know what your genetics can get you to so you might as well maximize your attributes before you decide other people will always think you're unfrickable.

    • 7 months ago
      Anonymous

      >have seen a lot of ugly as frick and poor guys pick up nice girls
      Only in shitholes where there is no competition from wealthy men

      • 7 months ago
        Anonymous

        Shitholes have no wealthy people? economic division only exists on Europe, America and Japan? Lol.

  5. 7 months ago
    Anonymous

    See what NDErs say, that you chose this life.

    NDEs are actually solid proof of life after death, because anyone can have them if they come close to and survive death. And they are so extremely real to those who have them: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U00ibBGZp7o

    As this NDEr described their NDE:

    >"Now, what heaven looks like? 'OMG' doesn't even describe how beautiful this place is. Heaven is, there are no words. I mean, I could sit here and just not say anything and just cry, and that would be what heaven looks like. There are mountains of beauty, there are things in this realm, you can't even describe how beautiful this place is. There are colors you can't even imagine, there are sounds you can't even create. There are beauties upon this world that you think are beautiful here. Amplify it over there times a billion. There are, it's incredibly beautiful, there's no words to describe how beautiful this place is, it's incredibly gorgeous."

    And importantly, even dogmatic skeptics have this reaction, because the NDE convinces everyone:
    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mysteries-consciousness/202204/does-afterlife-obviously-exist

    So anyone would be convinced if they had an NDE, we already know this, no one's skepticism is unique.

    >muh brain chemistry

    Neuroscientists are convinced by NDEs too. What do you understand that they do not?

    >muh DMT causes it

    Scientifically refuted already, and NDErs who have done DMT too say that the DMT experience, while alien and really cool and fun, was still underwhelming to the point of being a joke when compared to the NDE.

  6. 7 months ago
    Anonymous

    True. This has been one of my biggest existential crises so far.

    • 7 months ago
      Anonymous

      I hate myself, I hate myself so much.

  7. 7 months ago
    Anonymous

    This world is fallen according to Christianity anon. All worldly achievements make you miserable and are more likely to condemn you to hell. God has turned you towards him by making you an unfrickable moron and will reward you in the kingdom to come if you keep the faith. Be glad that you have no treasures on this earth. You are among the least of god's creatures and therefore his most beloved. You are the lucky one chad is not.

    • 7 months ago
      Anonymous
      • 7 months ago
        Anonymous

        am I wrong?

        • 7 months ago
          Anonymous

          No, it’s the true Christian perspective, and is pretty liberating the way you phrased it.

  8. 7 months ago
    Anonymous

    Women are overrated, it's rather more regrettable being born into a poor and degenerate family

  9. 7 months ago
    Anonymous

    Something that has helped me deal with a similar situation is to practice gratefulness. Every day, when I pray to God, I thank him for all the good things in my life. Focusing on the good rather than the bad doesn't make the pain go away completely, but it really does help.

  10. 7 months ago
    Anonymous

    Weekness is a choice

    • 7 months ago
      Anonymous

      What would strength be in this instance?

      • 7 months ago
        Anonymous

        Submitting to Allah

      • 7 months ago
        Anonymous

        Submitting to my wiener

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